
Youâve started writing your book, maybe more than once. Youâve got notes upon notes in your phone, partial concepts in a few notebooks, half-written chapters saved somewhere on your desktop, and a dozen sticky notes with big ideas on your fridge.
But actually finishing? That feels⌠way harder than it should.
If youâve ever thought:
Why is this taking me so long?
Do I even have what it takes to be an author?
Maybe Iâll pick it back up when life isnât so crazyâŚ
Youâre not alone, and youâre definitely not broken.
Writing a book is a bold, creative, and soul-stretching project. Itâs also unstructured, frustrating, and full of âAm I even doing this right?â energy. But there is a way forward, and it starts with letting go of the pressure and picking up a few good tools.
In this guide, weâre breaking down:
Why writing feels so hard (and what to do about it)
Easy ways to keep going when youâre ready to quit
A mindset shift that changes everything about finishing your project
Letâs get into it.
𤯠Why Writing Feels Way Harder Than It Should
1. Youâre Not Sure Youâre Qualified
Thoughts like:
Who am I to write this?
What if no one cares?
What if Iâm not a real writer?
Theyâll show up the moment you decide to take your idea seriously.
Those thoughts, however, are normal. Every writer wrestles with them. (Yes, even the published ones.) The key isnât eliminating self-doubt, itâs learning how to write anyway.
Itâs OK to feel unsure. But youâre also allowed to keep going.
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